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Most people believe infidelity is a deal-breaker. But faced with the dilemma whether to stay or go, many couples find themselves deciding to heal their hearts and rebuild their marriage. Here are some things to consider when faced with this decision.

Understanding the “how” and “why” of an affair is one of the most important steps in the process of recovering from infidelity. In my experience, there are usually Four Circumstances that come together for most affairs to occur.

Exchanging lies for truth after the discovery of infidelity is painful for both partners. This exercise can help you through the process so healing can begin.

Recovering from infidelity is hard work, but with two committed partners, it can be an opportunity to rebuild an even stronger, deeper relationship. If infidelity has rocked your world and you and your partner want to rebuild, here are some things you need to know.

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